It is very very bad and unacceptable. It is an error in the high places that what many of our young people understood about love and relationship is messing up themselves in the name of boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.
Sometimes if you should ask the youth whether it is a must for them to keep a boy/girl friend,they will not hesitate to tell you that they need someone who will love and care for them, a person who will stay by their side etc that is all they know about love and relationship.
Messing up in relationships does not love in any way. That is why we have broking relationships and broking marriages, because people go into it with a wrong motive and hallucinations.
We are relational creatures. All human live in community and most people seek social interaction and isolation is seen as one of the most stringent of punishment. Positive affirming relationships being great pleasure, but poor relationships bring deep pain.
Life's greatest happiness is found in good relationship with your God and man. And life's deepest pain is found in bad relationship especially when it have wrong motive. We are born to interact and communicate with each other that is natural in built in us.
The reality about reletionship is that they are never static. Everybody experience changes in relationships but few people stop to analyse why relationship gets better or worse, that is why you need to have a proper understanding about relationship and love.
Relationship and love is what we see every day by day and established with people not that kind of relationship you think off. Know that the truth about love is that love requires little work during its initial stage. One doesn't work to fall in love. It just happens.
Understanding the nature of love and relationships and learns the secret thing about it, it will help your relationship to last.
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