It is very true love doesn't cost a thing, but loving the wrong person costs you lots of tears, wasted years and a broken heart as bonuses.
A lot of people are addicted to the wrong person like a drug, and they term it as love. They forget that once their favourite drug doesn't get them high anymore, there is a high chance that the said drug has expired.
What do you do to an expired drug? You get rid of it, else it will not only damage you but kill you.
The pains and scars this bad relationship is causing you is worse than the love you once had for your partner.
There is no sense in justifying the scars a bad relationship caused you just because you loved the person holding the knife.
Sadly many are blinded by feelings, in spite of the warnings and caution loved ones, friends and family have given them concerning such relationships from the start. They continue defending the wrong partner till it's obvious to them that what everyone has been telling them is the truth.
But not knowing how to embrace the truth and move on, they continue to hide under the cover of "I love him or her".
Truth be told, you can fall in love with what is not good for your health and life. If you doubt me, ask the drunkard who always disgraces himself and the family on the street as a result of their love for drinking.
Stop thinking about what people will say about you. You didn't give up on the relationship, your partner did.
A lot of people are addicted to the wrong person like a drug, and they term it as love. They forget that once their favourite drug doesn't get them high anymore, there is a high chance that the said drug has expired.
Whether your partner knows your family or you know theirs, one thing you should understand, is, not everyone who comes into your life is meant to stay. Not everyone you date is meant to be your spouse.
Nobody is saying you should date the perfect person on earth, for there is no such thing like that. But you can get someone who will be 100 percent real with you.
Anytime you find out the one you love is not real with you, that's the end of such relationship.
One of the greatest mistakes you can make in life is wasting time waiting on someone to change for you.
You've got to be honest with yourself, when a relationship is over, there is nothing to do than to let it go. It doesn't matter the love you had for that person.
No one can squeeze juice from a piece of dry fruit.
No one can squeeze juice from a piece of dry fruit.
It is time for you to stop setting yourself on fire for people who will sit there and watch you burn.
Stop shedding tears for the one who enjoys seeing you cry.
Stop getting hurt for the one who enjoys seeing you in pain.
A word is enough for the wise.
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