A lot of singles rush into marriage because of parental pressure, age, social status, infatuation, even though it is not Gods desire for them. Some get married because their younger ones are married, therefore they cannot wait for God anymore, so they get married to any available partner.
Being single doesn't mean something is wrong with you or that you are a failure in life or God has forgotten you. God wants you to be married even more than you desire it.
It is necessary that you must be prepared for marriage before the right person locates you.
Your preparation for marriage must be all round spiritual, physical, emotional, social and financially.
SPIRITUAL PREPARATION:
You must be prepared spiritually so that you don't marry the wrong person. Marriage is ordained by God and it is more of spiritual than the physical. Therefore the spiritual preparation is very important. Develop a close relationship with God, accept him into your life and make your relationship with intimacy. Study God's words regularly, read Christian books, be dedicated to the service of God and trust in God to give you an ideal husband/wife.
You must be prepared spiritually so that you don't marry the wrong person. Marriage is ordained by God and it is more of spiritual than the physical. Therefore the spiritual preparation is very important. Develop a close relationship with God, accept him into your life and make your relationship with intimacy. Study God's words regularly, read Christian books, be dedicated to the service of God and trust in God to give you an ideal husband/wife.
As you do this, God begins to reveal to you, your ideal partner. Since human beings are difficult to understand, it is only God that sees the heart of Everyman, it is Him alone that can show you the ideal man/woman for your life. That's why you must rely on Him and you must be sincere with Him, don't keep a boyfriend/girlfriend somewhere and still ask God to show you the ideal partner. Don't play games with God.
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