SEVEN THINGS YOU CAN DO TO SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Every relatinship has its own flaw, It is possible to
save a relationship even if you seem to be the only
one who is trying to fix the myth.

That’s because these seven tips will make your
partner ALSO want to stop the breakup from
happening, and the best part is, you can do these
Seven Things You Can Do To Save Your
Relationship together. See them below:

1 – Suspend Your Emotions – When we are
emotional we say rashy things, make hasty
decisions, and do things we later regret. The
sooner you suspend your emotions, the sooner
you gain control and the sooner your partner will
calm down.

2 – Talk Without Pointing Fingers – The breakup is
happening, because you two can’t ever have a
discussion without the blame and judgment games
happening. Suspend your criticisms, judgments,
and comebacks and have a discussion that’s void
of all the negativity from your end.

3 – ASK Your Partner What Is Going Wrong – The
fights are happening, because your partner feels
they aren’t being heard; thus you can eliminate it
by simply asking them what they think is going
wrong. Hear them out, and listen, even when they
criticize and judge you, because they simply just
want you to listen for a change.

4 – Admit That You Need To Change – You’ve
spent a lot of your time denying that you need to
change by never admitting your mistakes, and by
justifying your poor actions. Be humble and
recognize openly to your partner that you need to
change and ask for their input.

5 – Remove The Relationship Talks – Right now
both of you are concentrating on everything that is
going wrong with the relationship and it puts a lot
of stress and strain on both of you, and on the
relationship. Take some space and don’t discuss
the relationship, and instead discuss each other
individually and your individual goals for instance.

6 – Do A Check Up System – Give your partner a
chance to tell you what to do, and let them tell you
how they want you to do it. THEN, create a check
up system wherein you check up with your partner
to ensure that they are happy with your progress
and that things are going the way they want finally.
Giving your partner some control here will help
them feel like it’s a two way street, instead of just
a one way, wherein only YOU make the decisions.

7 – Tell Your Partner You Appreciate Them – He/
she may feel like you don’t appreciate them
enough. They may think you take them for granted,
are not thankful, and simply don’t know everything
that they sacrifice for you. Let them know that you
appreciate them by telling them how and why you
do, so that your partner can feel desired and
appreciated again.