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Put a frog in a vessel of water and start heating the water.

As the temperature of the water rises, the frog is able to adjust its body temperature accordingly.

The frog keeps on adjusting with increase in temperature...

Just when the water is about to reach boiling point, the frog is not able to adjust anymore...

At that point the frog decides to jump out...

The frog tries to jump but is unable to do so, because it has lost all its strength in adjusting with the rising water temperature...

Very soon the frog dies.

What killed the frog?

Many of us would say the boiling water...

But the truth is what killed the frog was its own inability to decide when it had to jump out.

We all need to adjust with people and situations, but we need to be sure when we need to adjust and when we need to take the rightful decision.

Because no one else might get hurt at the end of the tunnel but you.

There are times when we need to face the
situation and take the appropriate action...

If we allow people to exploit us physically,
mentally, emotionally or financially, they will continue to do so...

We have to decide when to jump.

Let us jump while we still have the strength.

Share and Inspire someone out there to take the bold step now and today.

I am committed to always bring people to the understanding of the true essence of life; which is SELF ACTUALISATION.

No one else will do it for you.

Enjoy your life while you're still alive.

YOU'RE GONNA LEARN SOMETHING FROM THIS. JUST READ

Buffalos kill 7 people every year.
Lions kill 500 people every year
Hippos kill 800 people every year.
Spiders kill 5000 in people every year.
Scorpions kill 7000 people every year.
Snakes kill 10000 people every year.

Guess what?

Mosquitoes kill 2.7 million people every year.

The smallest are the deadliest.

Small 'sins', hardly noticed by many, are the most deadly to your spiritual life.

Avoid excuses for not praying and allotting few moments of your day to your Creator.

Sins of omission are just as deadly as sins of commission.

White lies, gossiping, small lies, are committed more frequently and are deadly.

Mind those little compromises that you do daily.
They are the ones that will bring your downfall.

Successful people have two things on their lips,
"Smile and silence".

Smile can solve problems, while
Silence can avoid problems.

Sugar and salt may be mixed together
but ants reject the salt and carry away only the sugar.

Select the right people in life and make your life better and sweeter.

If you failed to achieve your dreams, change your ways not your Creator.

Remember, trees change their leaves, not their roots.

You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks.

Haters will see you walking on water and say it's because you can't swim.

Even if you dance on water, Your enemies will accuse you of raising dust.

Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business and to work with your own hands.

Remember Don’t ever wrestle with a pig. You’ll both get dirty, but the pig will enjoy it.

Be wise and be smart...............
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S ex and Respect... (See Details)

These days that some young ladies take marriage like boyfriend and girlfriend affair where they change s*x partners anyhow and later go back to the “real” guy, a man has to pray well to find a good wife: S*x is an important element in marriage and until there is s*xual intercourse between a husband and a wife, the marriage is not yet spiritually recognized.

This shows how important s*x is in marriage. When you look at how aggressive some men are towards s*x you may think that what men really need from their woman is s*x.

Of course, if he has not married you yet or he does not really intend to marry you what he will need from you is nothing more than your body. But if he intends to marry you or you guys are married, s*x is not the real thing he needs from you…– maybe let me say it better; “WHAT A MAN NEEDS MOST FROM A WOMAN IS NOT S3X.”Many young girls think because they are s*xually active and experienced they will easily be married and have their husbands loving them. And when a man approaches for marriage they think the greatest asset they have to show the man is s*x.

Others also think once they are giving out their bodies it means they are giving out the best for which reason they will be chosen above all.

There is this girl who is very beautiful and s*xually active. Due to that she thought s*x is all that matters to a man. Ironically, she struggled for long before finally getting married. Her s*xual dexterity could not win her the heart of a man until out of the blue and reason beyond imagination a very handsome good man married her. The wedding was grand and her tears were now gone. Unfortunately only a year after the wedding the marriage fell on rocks. Within five years three different men came her way but none could stay. The problem was simple. She thought s*x was all that matters so she never consider respect. But respect is what real men need, not just s*x. It is time for our young ladies to know that when a man is ready to marry he will not look out for a woman who will satisfy his s*x drive but a woman who will submit herself to him. Excuse my language, “every woman has va-gi-na but not every woman has humility”.

So when you are a humble woman, you are an expensive jewelry. And a man of integrity will never want to lose you.

What does the Holy Bible say, “wife, submit to your husband”.

The reason is that a man’s true love goes out only for a woman who is submissive.

Your beauty cannot make another woman ugly but your humility can let him love you above all other women.

Sadly, many young ladies of today term submission as ‘control’. And you will hear them saying in tiny voices, “As for me I don’t want any man to control me oh”.If you don’t want to be submissive don’t bother getting married because no man in his right sense will offer his love to a woman whose heart is higher than his height, no matter how short he may be. When a woman bows her knee before a man, the man will automatically bow his heart before her love. And love her sincerely. I tell you that every real man does not need just s*x, but a respectful woman. It is submission that truly makes you a romantic wife So be the African queen you want to be but when it comes to relating with your husband, play the role of a humble wife.

Don’t forget that it is the spirit of humility that has caused many maids to hijack their madams’ husbands. Be your man's queen and be his maid also. I wish you all the best as you submit in your relationship and marriage. May God bless you with good marriage, my dear sister.

Written by B.I.C. Abeiku Okai–

What can I add to this? Any lady who allows arrogance to control her will suffer a lot as such attributes could drive her away from her husband’s house and she becomes a “hang-around”. Be wise

10 COMMANDMENTS FOR SINGLE LADIES!!!

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1. Never fail to pray before saying yes to a man. Don't be
in a hurry to get married. If you rush in, you may rush out
with a lot of injuries!

2. Discover Your Purpose before marriage. Go To School Or
Learn A Trade. Don't wait for a man before you start living.
Add value to yourself. Have a life.

3. Don't run after a man because of his money, cars,
connection, position, talent, or family background. Marry a
man base on the conviction of the Holy Spirit and
Love

4. Develop a healthy eating habit. Don't be too fat that
single men begin to think you are married. It takes
discipline to do that.

5. Dress well: First Impression counts. Don't expose any of
your private part for men to see otherwise you might only
attract a player not a responsible man.

6. Don't beg or force a man to marry you. You are too
precious to do that. And don't try to hook and keep a guy
with sex or unwanted pregnancy. Many ladies who
do that end up in shame and regrets.

7. Your character is your marriage. It
makes a man want to spend the rest of his life with you.
So Work on your character. Beauty is not everything. If it is
all you have, you'll lose your place
to someone more beautiful and more matured than you.

8. Never fail to learn how to cook good food. Men usually
love a woman who feed them with good food because one
of the easiest way to a man's heart is through
stomach (good food).

9. Never fail to read at least 20 books on marriage &
family before your wedding. The marriage you don't
prepare for will confuse you when you get there.

10. Attend marriage seminar and premarital counseling
before marriage.

DO YOU AGREE WITH THIS?